Alexis Arquette

topic posted Tue, November 8, 2005 - 1:54 PM by  ż€₪ż€₪
I was reading a co-worker's "People Magazine" today, and it mentioned that Alexis Arquette (of the famous Arquette acting family), has begun his transformation from male to female. And they're making a show out of it.

I did a Google search for more info (the People Magazine article was just a one-paragraph blurb), and found this article:

www.queerday.com/2005/oct/...on_ae.html

What do you think about them documenting/televising Alexis' very personal journey? I'm sure it will be watched by many people, and will probably cause a storm of controversy with some. I think it will do much to raise the level of awareness of the general public in regard to transgender issues. I think it can only be a good thing.
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Los Angeles
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    Re: Alexis Arquette

    Tue, November 8, 2005 - 3:12 PM
    YAY!! I agree.It should be a positive and more realistic portrayal of our lifes journey.Not some comedic "drag",or Transexual prostitute story.Now that's reality.
    I hope.
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      Re: Alexis Arquette

      Sun, November 13, 2005 - 2:34 PM
      roxanne said: "Not some comedic "drag" or Transexual prostitute story. Now that's reality."

      Sorry to burst your bubble, but Alexis has forged a spectacular career as a drag queen, often performing as "Eva Destruction". In addition, she's appeared in several notable films such as Pulp Fiction, Children of the Corn, and Killer Drag Queens on Dope.

      I understand how tempting it must be to resent us queer trannies, but please note that we're finding it a bit challenging to maintain a positive attitude about hetero transvestites.
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        Re: Alexis Arquette

        Sun, November 13, 2005 - 3:18 PM
        Sorry L.I don't resent anyone.I'm just tired of the only press on us being negative.I'm great friends with many Drag Queens and I love them dearly.Most of which are Gay men that go "over the top" with the female persona.I also have a room mate who is a "hetero" TV.I think you're reading way too much into what I said and you seem to be a bit of an angry person.I'm sorry if you interpreted my first message as not respecting Queer trannies,drag queens,or who ever.


        I'm hoping that Alexis will tell a story about how difficult it is to be Transgendered.

        Didn't mean to offend anyone.
        • Re: Alexis Arquette

          Sun, January 14, 2007 - 2:04 AM
          She seems to be a 'bit of an angry person'? You seem to be a bit of a bitch. "Oh woah is me I'm transgendered"....is that really the best way to 'tell a story'? How 'bout us being complicated people just like everyone else? How about Alexis' personal truth? We can't just look for scape-goats and representatitives. We have to support those who go public with their own personal histories and perspectives. And L sounds really fucking smart. BYEEEEeeeexoxoxoxox
          • Re: Alexis Arquette

            Sun, January 14, 2007 - 2:39 PM
            I find it ironic that you would read that much into that exchange while reminding us (and rightly so) that people are complicated. If people are complicated, knowing what is behind a few short sentences online has to be impossible.

            I agree with you in that we have to support people (all people IMO) in sharing their own stories. The most effective story is the individual one, the real, one as closely as it can be expressed. The more genuine the better...the more people who will feel it and feel they know someone. In this case especially important because if people can feel they know Alexis as a specific person it could shift their perception, stop making them think of anyone with gender issues as some alien being they have never met and would surely not want to meet. Her story doesn't have to be about transgender anything except whatever comes out as a natural part of her story to make a huge difference, just being herself is the most powerful thing she can do. of course it's the most powerful thing any of us can do IMO so I guess that's another one on the we are all the same list. (o: If I was a libra I'd be trying to think of something for the we are all different list to balance it out...heh I must have some libra in me somewhere cause I am thinking about it.
            • Re: Alexis Arquette

              Sun, January 14, 2007 - 9:11 PM
              I don't doubt that there's a lot more to the person my comment was directed to than what I percieved. I didn't mean to attack their person--but rather--the way they expressed themselves in a singular post. I thought it was pretty insensitive. Call me a hypocrite all you want, I think that insensitive deserves insensitive right back. Besides that I agree with you.
              • Re: Alexis Arquette

                Sun, January 14, 2007 - 10:27 PM
                I think how you treat people is about who and how you are...not them. Not that you have to go out of your way to be kind to someone who is treating you badly(part of who I am is definately sticking up for myself and others)...but that I don't think it automatically follows that if someone is insensitive then we should be insensitive to them. Not that I think that Roxxxy was being insensitive. I'm genuinely interested to know why you thought what she said was out of line.