what qualities do you look for in a mate? what do you like about yourself that you want to be appreciated for?
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Re: what is your perfect relationship?
Sat, December 15, 2007 - 6:44 PMWhat I'm looking for:
-Someone who is secure with themselves (and/or have healthy coping mechanisms for their insecurities)
-Someone with an interest in being healthy (doesn't drink or do drugs to excess, does not take pride in their vices, but they do not have to be perfect by any means)
-Someone who is comfortable with change and is not primarily interested in my body
-Someone who gets along with my friends
-Someone who speaks well about others
-Employed or working on their education
-Is comfortable talking about social issues (politics, science, religion, foreign affairs), but doesn't have to be well read.
-Someone I can do nothing with and being comfortable
-Cares but avoids being judgmental
Me:
-I want someone to appreciated my humor as dry as it may be.
-My smile even though I feel like an idiot when I see myself smile because smiles don't change
-I want to be appreciated for making people feel good
-I want to be appreciated when I do good things
-I want to be appreciated when I stand up for myself or my friends